Again, you are not his maid

Dating a girl with no ambition

Expecting a home cooked meal every single night makes for a relationship that will likely feel unbalanced in the long run. If he doesn't like them and refuses to hang out with them, leave immediately. The idea of playing backseat to their companion is nauseating to an ambitious girl. Most behaviors only grow worse over time. They take dating seriously.

They know how to handle themselves. While no man should always be expected to plan five-star dates, at the same time, the romance shouldn't just completely fall off a cliff at once.

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This will likely never happen. You are his partner, not his maid.

But in their minds, the most romantic thing in the world is being with someone who they can truly relate to, and someone who supports them in everything that they do. But men who are constantly suggesting that they want to just stay in and watch a movie early on in the dating game are likely the lazy type, or only out for sex.

If he truly cares about you, his good behaviors will grow stronger. They love dates and surprises just like the next girl. Anyone, regardless of gender, who asks for help paying bills early on in a relationship should raise red flags. These men will only become more rigid over time.

Romance usually means something different to ambitious girls. Some men with no ambition whatsoever like to talk up a good game, but at the end of the day, they are just saying what they know women want to hear. Ambitious girls are strong, confident, and intelligent. Dating someone who refuses to do anything new makes for a long-term relationship that is both boring and one-sided. Be very wary of men who talk up a big game of what they plan on doing with their lives.

They just want to know you care about something that matters and are willing to work for it. These changes in effort can be very foretelling of how he will be a year or two down the road.

There's nothing wrong with sitting on the couch and watching sports. They just want to be with someone who will love them for who they are, and never ask them to stop following their dreams. But this should never trump the responsibilities of a relationship or take precedence over family obligations.

It's the effort that counts. Run from this type of man immediately. There should be contributions from both parties, even if that contribution isn't always evenly divided. Assuming that he will eventually change and open up to your hobbies is misguided.

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